Sunday, July 27, 2014

July Adventures

As July comes to a close, I thought I'd share photos from a couple of fun events this month.

First, Jason and I celebrated the actual date of our 10 year anniversary (July 3) with our traditional picnic at the site of our wedding, Quail Hollow Ranch.  We hiked the vista point trail, had an amazing picnic, and took what I think is probably one of our best anniversary photos ever!  We certainly have come a long way in terms of health and fitness, especially in the last few years!

Then, last week, I got the unexpected opportunity to go to LA for a couple of days with my friend Christy.  We stayed in a hotel downtown, and managed to get over to 3rd Street to visit my brother Kyle at The Proper Barbershop where he works.  He took us on a mini tour of the area, including the LA Farmer's Market and The Grove, both of which are scenic retail districts where you're likely to spot a movie being filmed or sight a celebrity while shopping.

Also this month, I started a new job working the front desk at a local fitness club, to compliment my Zumba teaching and create an opportunity for growth as a group exercise instructor.  I got to see my nephews again this week as they visited with my brother George who is racing at Laguna Seca this weekend.  Summer, as usual, continues to fly by and I hope to continue taking advantage of the long beautiful days as we round the corner into August.

Sunday, July 20, 2014

Vacation Recap Day 4: Balboa Park & Seaport Village

Last month, my husband and I took a long-awaited vacation to celebrate our 10-year wedding anniversary. I've slowly been recapping the trip and you can read about our time at Disneyland Resort and Ocean Beach.

On the last full day of our trip, we enjoyed the last hours at the Inn at Sunset Cliffs with coffee and yoga on the lower terrace.  It was amazing to do sun salutations right at the water's edge.  You can see Ocean Beach Pier on the horizon, about a mile away.

After a lovely morning, we packed up the car and headed back to People's Organic Food Market, where we got pre-made salads, crackers and hummus, and cookies for a picnic in Balboa Park.  I have to say that this health food store, which is actually a neighborhood coop, was one of the highlights of the trip!  As I've mentioned, Jason and I are gluten-free and (while Jason eats meat occasionally) I'm vegan, and we are both foodies who love to eat.  This store was loaded with inexpensive, delicious offerings and we had no trouble finding a wide selection of treats for lunch.  

We said goodbye to OB and cruised a few miles east to Balboa Park, another site that we wanted to revisit from our honeymoon.  The main reason we wanted to visit, however, was to see the Real Pirates exhibit at the San Diego Natural History Museum.  In 1984, a sunken pirate ship, the Whydah, was discovered off the coast of Cape Cod.  This exhibit is a collection of artifacts from this shipwreck, recovered over the last 20 years.  It was AMAZING and I highly recommend it if you are in the area.  The highlight for us was seeing the pirate's actual treasure, which included pieces of gold and silver dating from the ship's passage in 1717. Also included in the tour are clothing, tools, and weapons used by the pirates and parts of the ship such as the bell, rigging and cannons.  There is also a room that explains how the artifacts were discovered, recovered, and restored for display.  No photos were allowed, unfortunately, or else I would have taken tons!

There were a few other exhibits at the museum while we were there, but the other one that I completely loved was SKULLS, which displayed a selection of 200 of the museum's most unusual animal skulls from its vast archive.  There were skulls from the tiniest mouse all the way up to an elephant.  My favorites were the bighorn sheep (of course, I'm an Aries!), the flamingo and the anteater.  The dolphin was also interesting because it was surprising how large the brain cavity is in comparison to the rest of the animal's skull.

After our tour we found a nice shady spot under a tree for our picnic.  There's not a bad spot in that park for picnicking... it's full of gorgeous old trees and lush, perfectly manicured lawns.  We enjoyed our food and people watching for about an hour.  The final place we wanted to visit was the Botanical Building, but we discovered that it was closed on Thursdays.  Oh well!  Since it was close to check-in time we decided to head downtown where we would spend out last night at the Embassy Suites on the Embarcadero.

Since we stayed at this same hotel on our honeymoon, we wanted to visit it again 10 years later.  Last time we were here, however, we didn't have a car with us and instead relied on public transportation.  This time, arriving at the hotel was probably the biggest logistical difficulty we had during the whole trip.  I had been pretty calm and going with the flow, but I was not expecting to have to valet park the car when we arrived! We were not prepared, and I had a mini freak-out about having to get everything out of the car on the spur of the moment, and about the $40 nightly valet parking fee. We are total "country mice" when it comes to how things are done in the city!  We had two coolers of food, bedding, yoga mats, unwieldy baggage, you name it that we were expecting to be able to carry in ourselves.  So we decided to prioritize, and left the coolers since we would be getting the car to go out again later that evening.  We grabbed what we could carry, checked in, and headed up to the room.  I was still upset about the parking cost but quickly relaxed since the view from our room was spectacular.

We had plans that evening to meet my brother George and his youngest son Alex, as well as George's fiancee Danielle and her daughter Lauren for mini golf in Belmont Park.  We had time to kill before meeting up, so we grabbed some coffee and walked around Seaport Village, which is right across from the Embassy Suites.  Jason picked out a new hat from the Village Hat Shop, a store we remembered from our honeymoon trip.

Later that evening we met my brother for a round of mini-golf in Mission Bay.  It was great to see my nephew Alex (and shout out to his older brother, Ryan, for house-sitting for us while we were on the trip! You did a great job!). After saying goodbye to the family we stopped by the Whole Foods in Hillcrest for dinner and then headed back to the hotel, where we enjoyed the city lights before turning in for the last night of the trip.

Overall, this vacation was more than we ever expected.  We have changed so much in the decade that we have been married.  We have weathered the ups and downs of marriage and of life in general, and we are all the stronger for it.  We are healthier and happier than ever before, and throughout the trip we kept reflecting on how much calmer, more centered, more present in the moment and more joyful we are now than our younger selves were a decade ago.  We both hope that it won't be another 10 years before we are able to go on vacation again, but I know that the memories from this trip are as spectacular as, and perhaps even better than, our honeymoon adventure.

Here's to many more years and memories, and may our love continue to deepen and grow as we continue this crazy journey together!

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Vacation Recap Day 3: Sunset Cliffs and Ocean Beach

After an amazing two days at California Adventure and Disneyland, we headed south toward San Diego and the cute, funky town of Ocean Beach.  We spent out honeymoon 10 years ago in San Diego, and OB was one of the memorable places we visited: one afternoon we rode the bus from downtown to OB on the spur of the moment to get tattooed!  Oh, how times have changed.

We were able to arrange for an early check in so we arrived at our hotel around noon.  We opted for a boutique hotel with a kitchen so that we could do some additional food prep and restock our stash of gluten-free vegan eats.  We stayed at the Inn at Sunset Cliffs, which proved to be even better in person than in the pictures!  The gardens, pool and terraces were amazing.  It is one of the few hotels in the area that is actually "waterfront" meaning that waves wash right up onto the lower terrace.  I imagine that they probably have to close part of the deck off in the winter months.  Our room was just as nice, with a fully-stocked kitchen, sitting room, bedroom and elegant bathroom with a large shower.

The first thing we did was get in the pool, spend some time soaking in the sun and the gorgeous view, and relax after spending 16 hours at Disneyland!  Jason, of course, got in a few rounds of poolside golf.

After relaxing for a while, we walked about a mile to downtown OB where the weekly Farmer's Market was in full swing. We paid a visit to A.C.E. Tattoo, where we got inked a decade ago, and picked up some tasty gluten free vegan desserts that were really a highlight of the trip.  I wish I has written down the name of the bakery that made them because we would have totally ventured there to get more before heading back to Santa Cruz but, alas, it was just a lucky find that will have to live on in our dreams of delicious desserts.

We also walked to People's Organic Food Market, which we had tagged on the map as a destination for getting groceries for the second part of our trip.  We decided to get stuff for dinner and then come back the next day for any other supplies.  We got fixings for tacos and headed back to the hotel, where we made dinner in our room and ate al fresco on the terrace overlooking the sunset.

Check out day 4: downtown San Diego and Balboa Park

Sunday, July 6, 2014

Vacation Recap Day 2: Disneyland!

After spending Monday driving to Anaheim and exploring California Adventure, we were ready to spend all of Tuesday in Disneyland!

We started out from the hotel in search of a Starbucks that, according to my phone navigation, was in Downtown Disney.  We really had no idea where that was, however, so after walking about a quarter mile out of the way we decided to follow the couples with strollers and would our way between the Disney hotels to what is basically a shopping center adjacent to the park entrance.  Sure enough, there was Starbucks but by this time in the morning, about 8:30 am, the line for coffee was as long as a ride, reaching nearly out the door.  As much as we were craving caffeine we decided to forgo a 20 minute wait and continued on toward the park.  Right before we left Downtown Disney, however, we saw a little bakery that had no line so Jason decided to try to get coffee there.  No waiting, and they were serving Starbucks brand anyway!  Don't get me wrong, Starbucks is OK but definitely not our favorite, it's just reliable while travelling.  They didn't have any kind of non-dairy milk or creamer so we had it black but we took this as a good sign that things would work out well that day.  I'm sure all you coffee drinkers out there understand how significant successful procurement of "black water" can be!

It was on to the park were our good luck continued.  As soon as we entered and took the obligatory photo right inside the front gate we headed to Adventureland.  Right away someone handed us a fast pass to go on Indiana Jones so we were able to walk into the fast pass entrance and only waited about 10 minutes to get on the ride.  We barely had time to finish our coffee!  Since it was built, this has been one of my favorite rides and I was stoked that Jason would get to experience it as his first Disney ride.  I could tell that  he was overwhelmed by everything, and I tried to imagine seeing it all for the first time.

Even though I hadn't been to the park for nearly 20 years, I went several times a year as a child and in my teens and early twenties.  Living in Southern California, Disneyland is much more accessible.  I even went there for grad night, leaving on a bus directly from my high school graduation.  Jason, who grew up in Santa Cruz, found this hard to believe! It was so fun to see everything that I remembered and had experienced so many times as brand new through his eyes.   He was only four the one and only time he had ever been, over 40 years ago.  There were a few changes, updates, and new rides but for the most part it was familiar and nostalgic for me.  It sounds cliché, but the day was really as magical and exciting as when I was a child.

I think one of the reasons that Disneyland is so fun to visit as adults without kids is that the park enables you to suspend the demands of real life for the hours that you spend there.  Everything is clean, the workers act happy, and the attention to detail ensures that you can get lost in an imaginary world.  It lets you play, be childlike, and forget the responsibilities of adulthood for a while.

We took full advantage of the opportunity, hitting all the major rides.  Two of my favorites were closed for renovation: Alice in Wonderland and Space Mountain, but we still had a full day.  We caught on to the fast pass system pretty quickly and used it to shorten the wait time for some of the big-ticket rides. Before lunch, in addition to Indiana Jones, we hit Pirates of the Caribbean, the Jungle Cruise, and Splash Mountain.  We left at about noon and walked back to the room to rest and eat lunch from the stash of food we brought on the trip. We returned  at about 2 pm and went on Thunder Mountain, the Haunted Manson, the Tiki Room, and Autopia.  We has a pretty silly experience seeing Thor, which we thought was a stage show of some sort but turned out to be a "meet and greet" with Thor himself.  We waited way too long in line for this privilege, but it was hysterical when the doors opened and there he stood, waiting to take pictures with the crowd.

We took another break around 6 and returned around 9 for a final session.  We got back just as the fireworks were starting and Fantasyland was closed, so we went on Pirates and Thunder Mountain again. We waited at the entrance to Sleeping Beauty's Castle until they re-opened the "kiddy rides", and then rushed to get on Peter Pan which is surprisingly popular and apparently always has a pretty long line.  We also got on Sleeping Beauty and It's a Small World. By this time it was nearing midnight.  We had gotten a tip from a regular the the Tiki Room that the best way to get on the Matterhorn, which doesn't have a fast pass option, is to get in line right before the park closes so we ran over to the snow-covered icon and got in line at 11:55. We were nearly the last ones in line as they closed it a few people behind us.  So we brought the day to a close with a visit to the Abominable Snowman!

As Jason said, we killed it!  We had a blast and are pretty much addicted.  We can't wait to go back.  I want to take Jason there during the holidays when it gets dark earlier and the park is full of lights and holiday decorations.  I was kind of skeptical that it would be as much fun to go as an adult as it was when I was a kid, but I was wrong.  It was better because we could do whatever we wanted and we got to do it together, which was the best way to celebrate 10 years of partnership and marriage.  Here's to the "Happiest Place on Earth!"

Next: Day 3 - Sunset Cliffs and Ocean Beach

Friday, July 4, 2014

Vacation Recap Day 1: Hitting the Road and California Adventure

At the end of June, Jason and I went on a long-awaited one week vacation to celebrate our 10-year wedding anniversary.  Since our honeymoon, we hadn't been away from home without our dog, Tiki, for more than a single weekend (in 2008) so we were both excited to venture out without the responsibility and limitations of travelling with a pet.

The trip started on a Monday when we packed the car with our clothes and travelling supplies as well as two coolers of food and drinks.  Since we're both gluten-free and I'm vegan (Jason only eats meat occasionally) we decided to pack most of our food and drink and carry it with us on the trip.  I made huge batches of pasta salad and potato salad, and we packed chips and salsa, hummus, veggies, salad and dressing, almond butter and jelly, GF tortillas, fake "chicken", coffee, and soy milk and creamer.  I also made a bunch of energy bars using my favorite recipe, and Jason make a dozen GF chocolate-chip banana muffins and a loaf of bread. While it was kind of a pain to lug the coolers in and out of the hotels, it would have been even harder to find suitable places to eat while travelling.  We knew that the Disney parks and surrounding area would be especially challenging, and I'm so glad that we made the effort to plan and make meals in advance because it took a lot of the stress out of finding food on the road.  It also helped us save a significant amount of money, since we didn't buy any additional food for the first two days of the trip except for water and coffee.

We left at about 9 am and headed for Orange County, destination California Adventure!  We had reservations for two nights at the Candy Cane Inn, which had good reviews and is close to the parks.  So close, actually, that we were able to walk to the park entrance in about 10 minutes, and you could actually see the back of California Adventure from the hotel parking lot!  Our room was small but all we needed for sleeping and eating between park adventures.  There was a king bed and a mini-fridge but no microwave.  The hotel also has a pool and hot tub but they were both full of kids and families each time we walked past on our way to and from the Disney parks.  There is a shuttle to take visitors to the park entrance every 30 minutes, but we preferred to walk since it was only about a half mile away.

After unloading the car and having a snack, we walked to the park entrance and arrived about 4pm where we met my brother Kyle and his fiancee Sara who have season passes to both parks.  I had never been to California Adventure, since it wasn't even built the last time I was at Disneyland, and Jason hadn't been since he was 4 years old (over 40 years ago!) so it was great to have tour guides with us who knew how to navigate.  I'm so glad Kyle and Sara were with us, not only because I don't get to see them very often, but because it let us chill out and get into vacation mode.  We didn't have to look at any maps or make any decisions, which was quite relaxing!

Right away they took us to Grizzly River Run to cool off, which was great because it was definitely warmer in Anaheim than we are used to in Santa Cruz, where summer is often colder than spring or early fall.  In fact I packed not one but three sweaters and a sweatshirt, which I didn't even take out of the suitcase!  Our tour guides took us around California Adventure and we covered all of the major rides.  There are a lot of fun roller coasters in this park.  My favorites were California Screamin' (a roller coaster with an upside down loop) and the Tower of Terror, which I thought would be a "drop zone" kind of straight up and down thing, but it was way more surprising and fun.  But the best part of the day was spending time with my brother and Sara and seeing how they got a kick out of taking us on their favorite rides for the first time.

The park stays open until 10 pm, but after driving all day and the excitement of seeing Kyle and Sara and all the crazy thrill rides we were pretty tired, so we said goodbye around 8:30 pm and headed back to the hotel.  The next time we see those two will be at their wedding in September!  I can't wait, they are an awesome couple and really bring out the best in each other.  It is wonderful to see them both so happy.  We got back to the hotel, ate dinner form our huge stash of food, watched some TV and called it a night.  It was a great kickoff to a wonderful vacation week!

Next... Day 2: Disneyland!!!

Wednesday, July 2, 2014

Inspiration Points

This week I have been reading The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown.  In it, she talks about how difficult it is to be true to ourselves, to be authentic, and to avoid feeling shame for not living up to our own unrealistic, perfectionist expectations.  This book has come at the perfect time for me, and I highly recommend it to anyone who is struggling with a disconnect between the life they are living and the live they want to live.  Brown defines this challenge as being part of the human desire to belong and to be loved, which are essential for happiness.  Tue belonging is scary, however, because we need to be our true selves and be accepted for who we really are to feel that we are loved and that we belong.  Instead of seeking this connection, most of us (myself included) seek acceptance instead, and mold and shape our thoughts, feelings, and actions to meet the expectations of others in order to fit in and to avoid the risk of judgement or feeling different or like an outsider.  This week I'm thinking about the importance of recognizing and becoming my true self.  The hardest part of this journey, for me, is the realization that I haven't been true to myself for a long time.  It has been hard for me to realize that, just because I am good at something and receive praise and accolade for it, doesn't mean it is truly, authentically what I really want to do.  It is painful to recognize that I have been denying myself the privilege of making my own dreams come true because I didn't (and still don't completely) believe in my own worthiness to experience happiness, fulfillment and joy.  But the first step to changing this mindset is recognizing where I am and beginning to explore where I want to be.  As Brown says, living a "wholehearted life" is a journey, not a destination, and part of that journey is having compassion for ourselves and letting go of the toxic desire for perfection.